Swiss Queer Pup
Puppy Birthday : 25.06.2022
Speaking : FR / EN / DE (learning 😜)
Hobbies : Kinks, Puppy Meet-up, Travel, Gaming,  Board Games, Nudism, Star Wars, Trains...
Puppy CV : Puppy Switzerland 2025, Admin of : Meet&Bark Bern, European Petplayers Chat & Events (+NSFW)

Photo Shootings

I'm an openly Neurodivergent Queer Puppy. I'm 30 (human) or 2 (puppy), and single. I live in Switzerland, near Fribourg. I speak French and English fluently, I'm learning German and Swiss German, though it is quite hard and I still need help to go through long conversations. I tend to describe myself as modern, minimalist, open-minded, curious, playful, social... but also kinky, dom-switch and top.

One of my passions are games :  video games yes, but also board games, escape games, role-play games(TTRPG), card games, casino games, airsoft and shooting... I also love to go in the mountains, whether it is for skiing or just traveling. I am a resorting or city-adventure type of traveler. During my excursions I tend to visit the city but I never forget to embrace the local LGBT atmosphere. Gay saunas, gay bars, and kinky shopping are always on my to-do list when I go somewhere new.

I always enjoy puppy social activities, I try and go to many puppy monthly meet-ups (Meet&Bark), I often go with groups to events, such as photo shootings, and I proudly walk with the Puppies on Gay Prides in Switzerland and abroad. I would like to engage and commit even more to both my communities (LGBT+ and Puppy) by offering my time and energy, as well as my wish to improve the world we live in.

I will survive
Gloria Gaynor

I guess there is no need for a presentation. But lately it has been echoing to me. It is a song about getting over someone after fighting to save something which doesn't exist anymore. It's also about not being capable anymore to welcome the concerned person because it is simply too late and saving is not possible anymore. So you Survive, you will survive without this person and grow above and beyond it! Let's be strong!

Lyrics extract :

At first I was afraid, I was petrified
Thinking I could live without you by my side
[...]
Now you're back
From outer space
[...]
Go on, go, walk out the door
Turn around now
You're not welcome anymore
You're the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
Think I'd crumble?
You think I'd lay down and die?
No, not I, I will survive
Long as I know how to love, I know I'll stay alive
I've got my life to live
And all my love to give and
I will survive
It took all my strength not to fall apart
Trying with all my might to mend my broken heart
I spent so many nights feeling sorry for myself
How I cried
But now I hold my head up high
[...]

link : Spotify (and the DE Version, don't ask me why...)

Previous:
Touch, Katseye

In the end, Tomee Profitt, Fleurie & Jung Youth

Crush, Nuit Incolore

In two sentences:
My ethics prioritize communication, consent, and care as the foundation of healthy relationships, ensuring expectations and limits are clear, mutual, and adaptable. To maintain balance, I organize my relationships hierarchically, focusing on my main partner and handler while nurturing meaningful connections with others, all guided by transparency and mutual respect. 

Developped:
It is important for me to define and apply my ethics everyday. Although it can slightly vary or evolve over time or experience, the backbone of my beliefs remains.

The first and foremost value that I believe in is communication. Without proper communication it is hard to share, construct or evolve in a relationship with someone. Explaining expectations, limits and needs is truly fundamental for me to know about a partner in order to be in a healthy relationship. Especially when being neurodivergent. Expectations, and comprehension of the world is so different when wathcing it through my eyes or yours... Therefore I need to express clearly how I see things and be able to discuss it so confusion is reduced.

Then comes consent. Mutual consent is key to avoid frustrations, conflicts and discomfort between two people. Everything which defines a relationship and its rules/limitations has to be consensual and benefiting both parties. If one of the two feels disadvantaged, it will never work. Consent is to be mutual, revokable, clearly expressed, and mandatory. For me it is unethical to live in a one-way type of relationship with someone.

Sharing and caring comes next. They are essential in ethical relationships. However, life is about enjoying moments together, not overthinking ethics. Sharing through experiences, communication, and attention is key to help relationships grow behond expectations. While life has its challenges, caring for each other is crucial during tough times. However, care should never come at the cost of self-preservation, as this can harm both partners and the relationship itself. Clear communication about one's current limits, capabilities and feelings is vital and ethical for meaningful care. Thus, taking a moment for yourself or your own emotions doesn’t mean you don’t care, but it should be communicated. Ethical care supports both partners, while neglecting care to a partner signals disinterest and needs addressing openly.

Being ethical requires energy, time, and self-management, so setting priorities is essential to avoid being overwhelmed (emotions, stimuli, energy...). To manage this, I organize my relationships as well, I define my polycule as a Hierarchical Relationship Network. A main partner with whom I develop a relationship resembling monogamous, tailored to my ethics and expectations. A puppy handler who supports my development, provides care, and participates in social aspects of my life. Other relationships are secondary to my main partner but still play a meaningful role in my life and growth, benifiting from my time, love, care, energy and attention. Additional labels are unnecessary, as these relationships evolve with time and experience. 

Which brings me to…

In two sentences:
My view of relationships is grounded in ethics, communication, and mutual respect, adapting to the needs, expectations, and limitations of everyone involved. While my main partner is my priority, embracing my handler and others in my life is essential, with all bonds based on consent, sharing, and freedom to define individual boundaries, as no one belongs to another. 

Developped:

It is a theoretical outline based on my ethics and needs/expectations. It is meant to change and adapt for every situation and/or person I face. But gives you a pretty clear image of what is a base to work on when dealing with me.

My main partner would also be a nesting partner too in this scenario. Sharing romance, friendship, caregiving, sexual intimacy are important points of the relationship. We would also share social activities, emotional support, kinks and so on. (to a certain defined extent)

A clear communication would be key to share the expectations and limitations of such a bond. Even Though such a person would be the number one priority in my life, embracing and accepting my handler, and any other person I relation, is a must, as it is a part of me. They are an important part of my life and are to be considered as such. Never should they be considered a threat or competition. All my relationships are based on the same backbone of communication, consent and sharing without comparaison. This hierarchical way of seeing my relationships is crucial for me in order to maintain an ethical way of living in transparency.

No human is to be considered a propriety of another human. Thus the freedom of each one to define its expectations, needs and emotions is key in the relationship.

Ethics and how I view my relations are really unique and shaped to match as much as possible my needs, my expectations, my limitations, but also, and equally, the needs, expectations and limitations of my entourage.

I would like to end by a quote, the first ethical/philosophical one I learned :

 
"One’s freedom ends where someone else’s starts." 

I get the question a lot... And decided to answer it here.
Yes, my kinky necklace has a lock, a nametag too. My discreet necklace has only a nametag.
Both nametags and lock (especially the latter), have a meaning of belonging to someone : a pack (a Handler/Alpha) or a partner (main/nesting-partner).
I don't have any main-partner. Thus, until I choose so, I will be the only one having the key of my lock.
I consider giving it to someone as proof of immense trust, and I don't want it to be a misleading symbol being given to anyone.
About my leash though... It is also a sub/dom game tool, however I give my leash to people I choose according to my current mood and it is not an unconditional privilege! Please respect my consent. My handler is, until now, the only one having access to it freely.
I often wear all those symbols on my clothes : leash on my belt, lock/nametag on my necklace, and they are a part of me, which I am proud of.